I found my word for 2014 in the New Testament of the Bible, 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NRSV):
"Therefore encourage one another and build up each other..."
My word for this year, then is build. Build is a verb - an action word. It means to construct, establish, increase, strengthen, mold, form or create. To me, the visual images of build are individuals working hard to make something beautiful, strong and lasting. It implies that something is made better than before.
There are many things I want to build this year. First and foremost, I want to build my relationship with my husband. This isn't to say that we have a bad relationship, but I want to increase and strengthen it and mold and form it into an eternal thing of beauty. Similarly, I want to build my relationships with my children, son-in-laws and grandchildren. I want these relationships to be strong and lasting.
One of the best ways I can build my relationships with others is to build others up. I want to concentrate this year on encouraging, supporting and sincerely praising everyone I deal with, maximizing the good and positive points and minimizing and overlooking weaknesses.
There are other things I want to build as well, like my faith, confidence and trust in God. I want to build my knowledge, talents and abilities. This year, I want to create a life of lasting beauty and strength for myself and those dear to me.
Mostly, however, I want to be a builder of others this year - of my family, friends, students, work colleagues, neighbors and church associates. I will choose the tools I build with carefully, my words, my actions, and mostly my thoughts because it is my thoughts that ultimately build my words and actions.
I hope to build a better life in 2014, for me and for all of those around me, and in so doing build my house upon the firm Rock spoken of in Luke 6:47-48 (KJV):
"Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them...he is like a man which built an house...and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock."
