Saturday, January 3, 2026
My Word and Goals for 2026
Monday, September 29, 2025
On My Mind - Keeping It Real
Hey friends- in light of things going on in the world today, I have read lots and lots of comment sections (bad plan) and seen lots and lots of confusion, and I feel led to make this little post about my church (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, to refer to us most respectfully, but commonly known as "Mormons." Not the same as FLDS or RLDS) in case anyone wants some clarifying info.
7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
8 He that loveth not knoweth not God;
for God is love.
~I John 4: 7-8
Sunday, April 6, 2025
First Weekend of April and an Honest Sunday Stealing
Here's a little about what happened this weekend in my world.
- Seeing Little Women with our daughter and grandchildren.
- Listening to wonderful messages in our church conference.
- Enjoying sunny, blue skies and warmer temperatures.
- Having the entire week off next week for Spring Break!
- Safe travels to Josh's graduation.
- Success for Josh in his post-graduation job search.
- Healing for our son-in-law's knee after surgery, and for my broken foot.
- Our nation, our economy, and our society
1) What's the longest you've gone without sleep
I have had a few completely sleepless nights, usually brought on by anxiety. I usually go to bed early or take a nap the next day and that helps, but it takes a few nights of good sleep to really feel better.
2) What was the highlight of your last week?
The highlight of my last week was attending the play Little Women with my daughter and grandchildren. We had a great time at a very well-done production.
3) You have to give a 10-minute speech to a group of high school students. What's your topic?
As a high school teacher, I get paid to give “speeches” to high school students. Mostly, I instruct about the subject matter at hand - reading, writing, grammar etc., but I do give advice on occasion. If I had the opportunity to say whatever I wanted to, without the fear of some parent trying to get me fired, I would tell my students “Get off your phones and off the internet, and live life! Move out of your parent’s basement as soon as you can! Be social. Date, get married and have a family. Get a skill or education that you can use to make a good living. Stay out of debt! Think long-term! You really won’t want to be alone without a family when you are 60 or 70 so get married and have children. Make life work for you! Be kind and be happy!”
4) What is the single best decision you've ever made in your life?
Hands down, the best decision I ever made was to marry my husband. I was only 19 and Charly was 23 when we got married and I do not regret marrying young at all! The second best decision was to have children. Honestly, I wish I could have had more, even though there are always definite challenges and even heartache involved in raising a family. It is still well worth it! I wanted six but I ended up with four. The third best decision was going to college. My college degree has paid for itself again, and again and again and is still doing so. Statistics show that college-educated people even have better health and longer lives, in addition to better jobs and incomes.
5) If you could ask a coworker, friend or family member a question and be guaranteed an honest answer, who would you choose and what would you ask?
I would ask family members who are mad at us and don’t speak to us, what we have done wrong, and what we can do to make relationships better. Then, I would repent, ask forgiveness, and try to do better.
6) Do you cook for yourself when you're home alone?
I’m not home alone much, but if I am, I fix something easy. Grilled cheese sandwiches are a personal favorite when it’s just me.
7) Do you most often access the internet from your computer, your phone, or your smartwatch?
I have an old MacBook and a desktop PC. Right now, I am using the desktop because I have noticed my old (2015) MacBook is starting to cause me some eye strain.
8) Do you have more email addresses or phone numbers?
I have no idea which I have more of. I usually communicate through text, not email, but I rarely make phone calls.
9) What's the biggest source of anger in your life right now?
I’m not really angry, but I am concerned and worried about many things. There are very concerning things going on in our nation right now - things on both sides of the political spectrum. I worry about what is going to happen to our economy under Trumpism 2.0. That being said, I will be completely honest here about what I believe is an even greater danger to our society. I believe that radical ideologies, like "queer theory", "radical feminism", and other evil ideologies that include abortion and transgenderism are destroying our families and our society. I see this every single day in the public school where I teach. When our families are gone, our society will follow. Anyone who doesn’t like the current administration must realize that many people voted for President Trump as a reaction to radical left policies and ideologies. It’s very concerning.
10) Mondays make me feel…
...a bit down because I have to deal with the things I deal with for another week. I am hoping this changes once I retire. I would like to feel energized and renewed on Monday.
That's all for this Sunday. Thanks for stopping by. Enjoy the week ahead.
Until next time,
😊Deb💖
“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.”
~I Corinthians 15:58
Friday, November 8, 2024
My Honest and Candid Thoughts About the Election
I think that we have all been thinking a lot about the election this past week. Some are upset about the results and others are ecstatic. Now that we have all had a few days to sit with and process the results of the election, I wanted to post some of my thoughts about many of the things that impacted the 2024 vote. I will be honest, I did not vote for the winner of the election. I am currently a registered Republican, but after January 6, 2021 and the election denial that followed, I vowed I would never vote for him, and I did not. An interesting thing happened however, as I listened to the cases made for each candidate, especially the one I planned to vote for. I realized that the Democrat candidate, (Kamala Harris) and her side of the political divide did not represent me, my views or interests any more - probably less than the candidate on the other side (Donald Trump). I tend towards the middle ground and don’t see the extremes on either side as helpful. The extremes, both right and left, are, from my perspective, dangerous. Apparently, some of the things that became issues for me this election, were also issues for others, no doubt affecting the election outcome.
My faith shapes my world view and opinions, so I cannot agree with abortions at any and all stages of pregnancy - especially when the procedure is for convenience and not medical necessity. I was an “unplanned” baby myself and I am eternally grateful that my birth mother did not consider me disposable for her own convenience. Adoption is an infinitely better alternative than abortion.
Gender is an immutable part of who God created us, as individuals, to be and it cannot be changed. I refuse to go along with the lie that females can become males and that males can become females. I won’t use pronouns that affirm or validate something that is untrue and I believe the surgery and other hormonal treatments to “affirm” gender dysphoria are simply wrong. Men should not unfairly compete against women in sports just because they have changed their “gender identity.” Similarly, men and boys, even those who “identify” as female, should never have access to restrooms and locker rooms where women expect privacy and are at their most vulnerable.
I know that those in the LBGTQ community/Pride movement are very concerned in light of the election. I get it. I have family members in that category, but I will always stand firmly for traditional marriage and family. No one should experience discrimination or mistreatment, but our society is stronger when we have strong traditional families. Children need BOTH a mother and father. I agree 100% with Biblical principles of marriage and family, even as I love and care about those not in such relationships.
We are a country of immigrants and that is and always has been one of our strengths. That being said, we need major reform so that our doors can be open to those most in need, while establishing and maintaining the rule of law. We simply cannot take in everyone who wants to come, all at once. I am not sure at all how to do that, so there needs to be a lot of compassion, compromise and fair limitations.
As far as the economy is concerned, prices have gone up - a lot. We have all seen it. My hope for the economy is that Trump will be able to sustain economic growth increasing affordability. The stock market had a robust week after the news of Trump's win, so hopefully that is a sign of good things to come.
I won’t pretend I don’t have concerns about the incoming administration. I do. I have disagreed with many things Donald Trump has said and done over the years. I would very much have prefered another candidate on the Republican ticket. However, I feel a sense of peace about the election that I did not expect to feel. I am glad that the voting was decisive and that we can move forward without multiple court cases and false claims of voting fraud. I expect that the transfer of power back to Trump will be a return to the American tradition of peace and goodwill. I hope that I am right and for that, I am extremely grateful. Still, as I examine the policies and philosophies of each party, I cannot help but feel that I no longer align with an increasingly leftist Democratic party.
My paternal grandmother had a picture of John F. Kennedy in her kitchen, and I was definitely raised in a family of Democrats. The Democrats my parents liked espoused the values of the working-class American family. As I have thought about the choices of this election, however, I realized that the current Democrat party has gone so extreme that it has left many Americans behind. I am among them. I believe that this is a big reason that the election went the way it did.
It is not my intent to offend anyone with this post. I acknowledge that others don’t see things the same way I do. I respect that and hope that we can always make room for other views without weakening our own. As we enter a new era in America, I am praying for our country, all who lead it, and all of us who love this land.
Until next time,
😊Deb💖
“There is nothing wrong with America
that cannot be cured by what is right with America.”
~Bill Clinton
Sunday, May 29, 2022
Rainy Memorial Day Weekend and a Few Thoughts About the Last Two Weeks
Three day weekends are always nice, especially after stressful, hectic and heartbreaking weeks like this last one has been. Memorial Day is the final holiday weekend of the school year. We have three days of school next week, and then we are finished for the school year, and summer vacation 2022 begins on Friday, June 3.
- All those who have given their lives for our freedom
- Rain
- Visiting family graves with Charly and Josh
- Lunch with friends
- Friends I have made in our church congregation family
- A good Sunday worship service
- A wise and loving bishop
- Counsel from our bishop
- Opportunities to help someone in need and give encouragement this weekend
- My toe is still bruised and tender, but the infection is much better
- Monday off
- Summer vacation is close!
- Monday - Memorial Day - day off!
- Tuesday - Back to school for the last three days of the year.
- Thursday - Final day of the school year
- Friday - Summer break begins 😊














