Friday, December 30, 2022

Getaway and Gratitude

I am very late in posting my Friday gratitude post, so let's get right to the good stuff and gratitude.  I am linking, as always, with Susanne over at Living to Tell the Story.  

The morning of the day after Christmas, Charly, Josh and I headed out on a winter getaway trip to St. George, Utah, which is about 3-4 hours south of where we live along the I-15.  At our first stop for gas, we were pleased to see that the price per gallon has fallen a lot since last summer. 

On our trip down south, there was only a little snow on the ground and the rounds were completely dry.  Traffic seemed light, because there were few semi trucks, probably because some truck drivers got the day off.  It seemed that the ladies rooms at every truck stop were packed however, with potty lines out the door! 

We got to St. George about 3 p.m..  Here are some of the rooms of the large and comfortable condo where we stayed.  Josh got his own bedroom and bathroom for the duration of our stay.  We all like having room to spread out and relax. 

I love that there are views of the beautiful red cliffs that St. George is famous for, from virtually everywhere in the city. 

There was an awesome sunrise from our balcony the first morning we were in St. George. 

We went out to nearby Snow Canyon State Park and did some hiking, first thing.  Here are some pictures of that hike - the West Canyon Road Trail. 



















The sky was cloudy and overcast, but we didn't get any rain. The temperatures were cool enough that hiking was a pleasure. We enjoyed being together in such beautiful surroundings for a great hike. 


That evening, we had a special treat when josh fixed dinner for the family. 

Josh found and prepared the recipe for this delicious Italian pasta dish. It was so good and it was fun to have Josh be our cook!


Wednesday morning we had a little rain, so no hiking then. The skies cleared about noon and Josh and I went to lunch at a Mexican restaurant in St. George he wanted to try.   The spices in Mexican food don't agree with Charly, so he didn't come with us. 


Josh and I enjoyed a delicious lunch, then headed off for a little more hiking. 

Josh and I hiked the Chuckwalla Trail at the Red Cliffs Desert Reserve. Here are some pictures of this hike - another pretty trail with lots of red cliffs. 



















It was a nice hike and a perfect time spent with my youngest son.  I am so grateful that the rain let up so we could get out on this trail. 

After Josh and I got back to the condo from our hike, Charly and I went to several thrift stores we like in St. George. 


I am being very choosy and careful with purchases, but I couldn't resist this traditional nativity which was marked down to only $1.25.  It will make a nice addition to my nativity collection in coming years. 

We left St. George on Thursday, a day earlier that we were planning to, as another storm moved in on Friday.  Our drive home Thursday was safe and uneventful, although there was some snow, slush and even ice on the side of the freeway.  We were happy to get home safe and sound, even if we had to leave a day before we were planning to.  

Gratitude for this week:
  • Experiencing a great trip to St. George.
  • Paying less for gasoline.
  • Traveling safely.
  • Hiking in gorgeous terrain.
  • Enjoying family time with Charly and Josh.
  • Having good conversations with Josh.
  • Having the week between Christmas and New Year's off.
  • Having a nice, spacious condo to stay in St. George.
  • Owning a reliable vehicle. 
That's all for now.  
Happy New Year!  

Until next time, 

🎉Deb🎊

“Celebrate endings—for they precede new beginnings.” 
—Jonathan Lockwood Huie








 

Thursday, December 29, 2022

December Reading Roundup

December was a great end to my 2022 reading year.  I read some interesting, entertaining and informative books this month and enjoyed them all.  Here's a brief review of each one. 


The Fire Thief

by Debra Bokur

What do the murders of a young native Hawaiian surfer and and an elderly grandmother have in common other than they both take place on the island of Maui in Hawaii and seem to have been committed by a ghost?  That's what Deterective Kali Mahoe and her police captain and uncle Walter Alaka'i have to figure out before there are any more deaths.  Sightings of a faceless, malicious spirit seem connected to the grisly crimes,  but is it just superstition? Are the killings somehow connected to Hawaiian folklore?  This book grabbed my interest from the beginning.  The island setting connecting paradise to deadly dark secrets immediately got my interest. The characters, especially Detective Mahoe are strong and well-developed, and while flawed, they are likeable.  Although the book seemed to drag a bit with investigative details in the middle, the ending was fast-paced and the plot tight.  I enjoyed this book and will look for the second installment in the Dark Paradise Mystery series by author Debra Bokur, The Bone Field.  I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Own paperback copy purchased from Dollar Tree).



The Screwtape Letters

by C.S. Lewis

I have recently taken a couple of online classes about C.S. Lewis, but until now I had only read one of his books, Mere ChristianityThe Screwtape Letters is considered a true classic of Christian literature.  It is written in a satirical tone as letters from a wordly-wise demon, Screwtape, to his demonic nephew and novice, Wormwood.   In the letters, Screwtape tells his nephew how to win souls to "Our Father Below," Satan himself.   The letters are interestingly entertaining, ironically humorous and thought-provoking as Screwtape tells Wormwood how to use human nature to secure the damnation of a young man whom Wormwood has been tasked to take to hell.  The addition at the end of the book, written several years later,  Screwtape Proposes a Toast, takes on a political tone and comments about government and education in the 20th century, specifically the post WWII world.  In today's "Cancel Culture" society, I'm afraid that C.S. Lewis might have been in real trouble, but much of what he wrote rings true, and gives even the 2022 reader much to contemplate.  I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Library audiobook).


Failure to Launch

by Mark McConville, Ph.D.

This is a wonderful book about parenting young adults - especially those who are having a difficult time as they transition from adolescence to adulthood, which is happening more and more in our society.  In fact, sociologists can pinpoint a birth year - 1995 - when young people began to change in ways that made them more isolated, depressed and anxious.  Young adults are now waiting much longer to move out of their parent's home, marry, go to or finish college and achieve other "adult" milestones. While there are certainly economic factors that could be causing some of this,  some sociologists are convinced that smartphones and social media have had a MAJOR impact on what has come to be known as I-gen (Internet Generation). My youngest son was born in 1996, and I have seen this very phenomenon in my own family.  That is why I decided to read Failure to Launch.  The book is interesting and highly readable, and extremely informative and helpful.  I had heard the author, Mark McConville, who is a Ph.D. and family therapist, on a podcast last year, and the things he said really resonated with me and our own family experience.  I then asked my own family therapist about this book, and he gave it a resounding endorsement.  This is an excellent book for any parent who is trying to help a twenty-something child, grow up, deal with issues like anxiety and depression, and make his or her own way in the world.  It also has great ideas for any kind of challenging family communication, which many people experience. Highly recommended reading, especially for parents and grandparents of teens and young adults.  I gave this book 5/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Own hardbound. Purchased from Amazon). 


When It Doesn't Make Sense

by John Bytheway

John Bytheway is one of my favorite religious authors and podcasters.  He is also a religion professor at Brigham Young University.  In his latest book.  When it Doesn't Make Sense, Bytheway talks about how to make sense of what doesn't make sense, or at least hold on with faith.  Life brings hard things to all.  Faith in God comes with lots of questions.  God has not given us all the answers to everything.  Some things we just simply will not have answers to until we get to heaven, but that doesn't mean we have to throw away all the good, all the miracles, all that the word of God teaches us.  We can hold on with faith and give the hard things to God.  We don't have to throw our faith away just because we cannot see the entire picture of God's plan perfectly. I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (I listened to the audio of the book on Deseret Bookshelf Plus). 


A New York Christmas

by Anne Perry

When Jemima Pitt, the daughter of an influential British enforcement officer, crosses the Atlantic with an acquaintance who is marrying the son of a wealthy New York aristocrat, she could not imagine the dark family history of her new friend, that would lead to murder.   When Jemima is accused of killing her friend's estranged mother, it seems that the coming Christmas holiday will hold little hope. As Jemima, desperate for answers that will clear her name, trudges through the strange and snowy streets of 1904 New York City, she finds help from a young police officer who also wants to find the truth.  This was my first Anne Perry book, but I doubt that it will be my last.  This book was a quick read, and while it started off a bit slow, the plot developed quickly and by the end, I knew I would have to have to stay up past my bedtime to solve the mystery.  The plot was interesting, unpredictable and compelling, and the connection to the Christmas holiday did not seem at all contrived.  All in all, I enjoyed this quick and readable little holiday mystery and will read another Anne Perry book soon. I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Own hardbound, purchased used as former library book). 


The Christmas Candle

by Max Lucado

A candle-maker and his wife in England in the 1800s experience a miracle when an angel touches one of the candles they have made for the church Christmas Eve service.  The person who the candle is given to then gets the special blessing they pray for.  But what happens, when the candle-maker doesn't know which special candle has been touched by the angel?  Who of the many needy people in the town will get the special blessing?  What if the candle maker and his wife have the greatest need of all? This book is a nice, little quick read, that has an overall good faith-filled message about Christmas.  It was OK, but I have read more memorable and inspirational Christmas books.  I gave this book 3/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Own hardbound book, purchased used at thrift store).

That's it for my reading in 2022.  I read 73 books in 2022, which is a new reading record for me!  I am looking forward to more fun, thrilling, uplifting, interesting, inspirational, compelling, informative and fascinating books in 2023. 

Happy reading in the new year!

Until Next time
😊Deb💖

"Keep reading.  It's one of the most marvelous
adventures that anyone can have."
~Lloyd Alexander