Thursday, June 29, 2023

Moving Forward With Gratitude

It has been another busy and exhausting week of moving and remodeling and renovating the house we are moving into.  Every day has been full as we loaded up our Honda CRV and made multiple trips to the house with everything from clothing and books to our freezer.  I have decided to put regular blogging on the back burner for a while, but before I go on a "blog break" I want to remember the good things by joining with Susanne over at Living to Tell the Story for Friday's Fave Five. 

😊 Progress continues on the renovation/remodel.  This is the new closet that is being built to make the large downstairs family room into a fifth bedroom.  The upstairs bathroom is also progressing, but not as quickly as we had hoped.  Apparently some of the needed tile pieces were in short supply and had to be shipped in from Italy.  We have been told they will arrive early in July. We sure hope so. Despite inevitable delays, we are grateful that things are moving along. 

😊 Our new stove was delivered this week.  It looks great, but we haven't been able to cook anything on it yet for obvious reasons.  We are grateful that the stove came.  Now we wait only for the new fridge, which won't arrive until  August. 

😊 We have moved a lot of things over to the house, including our freezer, our small downstairs refrigerator, and all of our family photo albums. (They are shown on the shelf in the corner. The photos need to be digitized, but that is a goal for another summer). We moved several book and storage shelves by ourselves in our Honda, which holds more than one might think.  I have also spent some time getting the ample basement storage room in the house organized.  While not perfect, it is straightened enough that I can find things in it.  I am grateful that I have had the time to get things ordered and organized as we move in. 

😊 While we have been moving, we have had the opportunity to take a hard look at what is in our home and decide if we really need or want it. We have made multiple trips to donate everything from books and bedding to yard furniture, flower pots and bookshelves.  I am grateful for the opportunity to lighten our load and help others in the process by donating things we don't really need. 

😊 These beautiful pink hydrangeas are blooming in the front yard of our house right now.  While I won't have time to do much more than basic mowing, trimming and weeding this year, next summer I plan to plant more flowers and get the vegetable garden going again.  I am grateful that the house has a nice, manageable yard with lots of yarden areas and beautiful flowers already in bloom. 

Now, with gratitude for all of these blessings and more, I will take a short blog break.  I hope to still come around to visit my blogging friends and comment, and I will post from time to time, but probably not as regularly as I have been.  Thanks for your understanding and thanks for stopping by to share the good.  I'll be back soon!

Until next time, 
😊Deb💖

"Gratitude makes sense of our past,
brings peace for today,
and creates a vision for tomorrow."
~Melodie Beattie













Wednesday, June 28, 2023

June Reading Roundup

With moving and overseeing house renovations and remodeling this past month, I have been exhausted at the end of each day.  I usually do a lot of my reading at night right before I go to bed, but this month, there have been many days when my eyes would simply not stay open for me to read more than a couple of pages.  For that reason, I completed only one hard copy book, however, I did finish five audiobooks, which Charly and I listened to in our vehicle as we were hauling things over to the house we are moving to. Five of the books I read were nonfiction and I completed only one fiction book this month. Here is a brief review and my thoughts about all of the books I Fnished in June. 


Own Your Past, Change Your Future ****

by John Delony

Dr. John Delony is a radio counselor/coach/psychologist who works with Dave Ramsey on his radio show. In addition, Dr. Delony has his own podcast about marriage and relationships. Because I occasionally listen to Dave Ramsey, I was familiar with Dr. Delony, so I decided to listen to this book. Overall, there is nothing new or earth shattering in this book. The author goes over tried and true strategies for mental and relationship health. It was an interesting book to listen to and gives the listener/reader good food for thought and reflection.  I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  I listened to the audiobook from the library.  

Redefining Anxiety *****

by John Delony

As one who struggles with anxiety, I found this book very helpful.  It is not a long book, and doesn't contain anything really new and earth shattering, but I love how John Delony explains important concepts and gives advice that I actually feel like I can follow.  His professional credibility comes across in this book which is excellent and helpful for anyone who deals with anxiety - their own or the anxiety of someone close.  I listened to the audio of the book which I checked out from the library and I gave this excellent little book 5/5 stars on Goodreads. 

The Hoarders**

by Jean Stringam

This is a book about two young brothers, the sons of a young woman who is a neglectful (and possibly drug addicted - although the reader never really knows) single parent who sometimes forgets to feed her boys.  The one person who the brothers can depend on is their Aunt Amy, who does her best to see that they are fed and provided for.  When the boy's mother decides to run away, Aunt Amy steps in and becomes the legal guardian for the boys until Amy suffers a devastating medical condition and other members of their large and dysfunctional extended family decide to make other plans that don't take the real needs of the boys into account.  I really wanted to love this book. but this was not a book that I could love.  I am sure that the author had good intentions by writing about the plight of the two neglected boys, and how they took care of each other, but large parts of the book seemed to make no sense.  The narrator of the story is the older of the two brothers, but the reader never knows exactly how old he is or other basic things like how their large affluent family got to be so dysfunctional, and how two little boys survived so long with so little care, eventually living in a wrecked van in the woods for several months, while their aunt was missing.  There are huge holes in the plot that leave the reader with lots of questions and detract from what the author was presumably trying to make a story of perseverance and familial love.  I don't think the author did much research or thought through some parts of the plot. I gave this book only 2/5 stars on Goodreads.  I own the copy I read, but will be donating it to a thrift store because I have no desire to read it again. 

Twilight of Democracy ****

by Anne Applebaum 

This is a book about the history and politics of Europe with an emphasis on the 1980s forward until the Covid Pandemic in 2020.  Applebaum has given the book a bit of a biographical twist with her own experiences with some of the major European political players of the time.  The books seems to be well researched and it is very interesting.  Applebaum's assertion is that European and Western Countries including the United States have lately gone far to the right politically and it is clear that Applebaum sees this as a threat to democracy and a path to authoritarianism.  She makes some reference to Donald Trump, and although this is not a book about Trump, it shows how his 2016 election followed along with European swing to the right after the fall of communism in Eastern Europe and Russia in the 1980s and 1990s.    This book is well worth reading for anyone interested in political history and concerned about the state of democratic governments around the world.  I gave the book 4/5 stars on Goodreads, and while I listened to the audiobook while driving in the car with my husband, I also own a hard copy of the book, which I intend to hang onto.  

House of Trump, House of Putin ****

by Crain Unger

This is a well-researched and documented expose of Donald Trump's connections to the Russian Mafia and Vladimir Putin.  It isn't the most fast-moving book, and all the Russian and Ukrainian names can be confusing to the English (non-Russian) speaking reader, but the book makes a compelling case that our 45th president achieved that office with a lot of help and approval from Putin. The evidence, as presented in the book, clearly shows that Trump is closely connected to Putin and the Russian Mafia and has been for many years. Every American voter should read this book, especially since Trump is running again in 2024.  I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads and listened to the audio of this book, checked out from the library via the Libby app. 

Nation of Victims ***

by Vivek Ramaswamy

When I checked this audiobook out of our library, I think I was expecting something different.  I actually found out about two-thirds of the way through the book, that there was another book by almost the same title by Charles Sykes (the Sykes book is called A Nation of Victims) and it was that book that I had wanted to read.  That book came out in the 1990s, so what I ended up with is this Nation of Victims by Vivek Ramaswamy (who I believe is running for president as a Republican).  Anyway, I was expecting something different from this book which turned out to be part economics, part history, part psychology and part philosophy all with a clear conservative political slant. I don't disagree with much of what Ramaswamy says about the detrimental effects on our nation of individuals and groups seeing themselves as victims (and behaving accordingly), but I found most of the book to be quite dull and boring.  I ended up giving it 3/5 stars on Goodreads because I did learn some things from listening to this book.  I listened to the audio of this book on the library Libby app.  I also found the book by the almost same name that I thought I had when I checked out this book.  That book, A Nation of Victims by Charles Sykes is not available through the library, so I purchased a used paperback edition through Amazon. 

As July begins, I am about half-way through with this novel, At the Edge of the Orchard by Tracy Chevalier.  I am really enjoying it, although I am not reading it quickly.  

Thanks for stopping by.  I would love to know what you are reading this summer. Any good book recommendations?

Until next time,
😊Deb💖
"I have more books than I can read 
in the years I have left
but I would rather have too many 
than not enough."
~ Linda Chapman, blogger at Linda's Life Journal




 

Sunday, June 25, 2023

The Last Weekend of June

 

Friday was a sunny and breezy day.  The temperatures were only in the low 80s.  It was a lovely day.

In the morning, I walked to my dentist's office (something I will not be able to do when we move) to get the new replacement crown put on.  I have had a temporary crown for the past two weeks. The dentist I go to is quick, yet thorough.  I was out of his office with a new crown in place in about 30 minutes.   The rest of the day, we took things over to the house, and worked at getting thing organized and put away.  

In the afternoon, a young woman and her darling baby boy, came to look at my piano, which I have been trying to sell for a few weeks.  She really liked the piano and "Venmo-ed" me the full asking price on the spot.  My birth mother wants me to have her piano someday and I want a digital piano similar to the one my daughter has, and I don't have room for more than one piano.  In addition, we will have to pay the moving company extra to move this piano to our home. I have had this one about five years, and haven't played it much, but it is a nice instrument and we gave the young woman a good deal on it. 

Dinner Friday night was BLT sandwiches, chips and salad.  Charly and I love BLTs. 

After dinner, we went back to the house, where I mowed and trimmed the lawn while Charly organized somethings inside the house. I love our new rechargeable electric lawn mower. It is so much easier to deal with than a gas mower. Our yard at the house is small and very manageable with a nice garden spot that I will plant next year.  It took me just over thirteen minutes to mow the front lawn and about nine minutes to mow the back.  I spent another fifteen minutes or so on weed wacking and trimming.  I enjoy mowing the lawn and working in the yard.  

Saturday morning, we decided to get out in the shed here at our condo and go through what we had out there.  We found a whole load of stuff to donate at our local church operated thrift store.  It's crazy how many things one can accumulate. We had luggage out there from when we had four children to pack for every time we went on vacation!  No more.  It is has all been donated.  Now to go through all the camping and yard stuff out there in the shed.  

We took several more loads of things over to our house on Saturday, including the tall bookshelf.  I am setting up one of the bedrooms in the basement as a sewing/craft/book room for myself.  It is starting to take shape, but is still a work in progress.  (It looked even better on Sunday). 

After dinner on Saturday, the young woman who purchased our piano came with her husband and family to pick it up.  They were the nicest people!  The young mom even sent me a video of her playing the piano to thank me for selling it to her.  I am always happy when things we are selling can bless the lives of others.  

Sunday, we went to church at the congregation near our house.  It was an awesome service with inspirational and motivating messages.  Afterwards, we visited with some friends-of-long-standing who also attend that congregation, and we talked to some people we knew from the last time we attended the congregation four-and-a-half years ago. 

After church, I went over to the house to unpack some books and set up my "to be read" shelves in my basement sewing/craft/book room. I also went through my "to be read" books with a critical eye (again) and got another full box to donate because I still need to pare down my book collection. 

Sunday dinner was ham steak, long grain and wild rice, cheddar potatoes and Asian salad.  We watched The Chosen while we ate. 

Sunday evening, I went out for a solo walk. Both Charly and I were tired after a week of moving things over to our house, but I am glad that I pushed myself and went out to walk because it was a beautiful summer evening. 

Because of the rain and cool temperatures during most of June, everything is green and lush and flowers are everywhere.  

As the new week begins, I am listening to an audiobook, A Nation of Victims by Vivek Ramaswamy, and reading At the Edge of the Orchard by Tracy Chevalier. The audiobook is average at best, but the novel I am reading is quite good.  I am so tired at the end of every day that I am not reading much before bed, but I am enjoying the book. 

Weekend Gratitude:
  • Making progress on the renovation of our house.
  • Making progress on the move over to the house. 
  • Selling our piano. 
  • Finding friendly faces new and old in our new church congregation.
  • Getting the new permanent crown on my tooth.

Coming up this week:
Monday - Microwave repair tech coming.
Tuesday - Meeting up with friends for lunch. 
Wednesday - New stove being delivered.

Thanks for stopping by.  I hope you had a nice weekend and that this coming week is all you hope it will be.  See you again soon!

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"Success is getting what you want. 
Happiness is wanting what you get."
~Dale Carnegie














 





















Friday, June 23, 2023

Catching Up and Being Grateful

Wow, we are having another busy week.  Moving and renovating an old home is not for the faint of heart. In the midst of it all, there has been much to be grateful for.   To take stock of all the good that this past week brought, I am joining with Susanne at Living to Tell the Story for Friday's Fave Five. 

I will start with Father's Day.  Charly was honored with calls and texts from our children, and I gave him a couple of small gifts - a leather belt pouch for his phone and a history book because he is an avid reader and loves history.   I am grateful to be married to a man who is a good husband and father.  I am also grateful that Charly loves to read.   His love of books is one of the things that attracted me to him. 

We attended church Sunday morning at the congregation near the home we are moving to.  We will probably be attending that church congregation from now on.  I am grateful to be able to worship in a place near the home we are moving to.  

After church and lunch, we drove up to Rexburg, Idaho, where Josh is going to school. It took us about four hours to make the drive (allowing for potty stops) so we arrived there just before 6 p.m.. We stayed in this motel.  We went to Rexburg to see Josh for his birthday and to drive with him to Logan, Utah so that his car could get a Utah emissions test so he could renew his license and registration for another year.  Since Josh wants to remain a Utah resident, his car has to have a Utah emissions test in the state.

Logan is a nice college town at the very northern end of Utah, almost to Idaho.  It is the home to Utah State University.  I attended a week-long journalism camp at Utah State University when I was in high school, but I hadn't been back to Logan since.  It is in the Cache Valley, surrounded by beautiful mountains.  You can see it was cloudy and blustery the day we were there, and rain and thunderstorms were expected in the afternoon, so our job was to finish the emissions test and get the car registration renewed, then drive the 200+ miles back to Rexburg before heavy rain hit.  

I didn't take any pictures, except of the mountains that surround the town. I am definitely a mountain girl and love living close to mountains.  They make me feel safe somehow.  We stopped for lunch, then headed back to Rexburg.  I am grateful that we were able to have a safe trip to Logan and that Josh's car passed the emissions test so he could renew his car's registration in the state of Utah. 

It took us just over 2 hours to make the drive. We got back to Rexburg just in time to take Josh out for his birthday dinner.  Josh chose Outback Steakhouse in Idaho Falls for his dinner. 

It was fun to sit and visit and catch up with Josh in person.  He usually text or calls every week, but it's always better to talk face-to-face and celebrate his birthday and his accomplishments since he has been going to college in Rexburg. I am grateful for Josh, as I am for all of my children. Josh is a good man who is making his parents proud. 

We got a "Bloomin' Onion" to share, then Josh had a steak and Charly had shrimp and pasta.

I had a cheeseburger and fries because that is one of my favorite meals.  I am an "All American Burger Girl."  We had a busy, but good visit to Josh in Rexburg.  We left to come home on Tuesday morning and were home just before noon. I am grateful for a good trip and a safe return home. 

We have been trying to sell our old dining room table on online classifieds for a couple of weeks, and we had priced it to sell - $20 for the table and all five chairs. The day we got home from Rexburg, we got a text from a young woman who wanted to buy it! She came in the evening with her mother and they loaded it into her mom's van and took it home.   I am grateful that we won't have to move the old dining room set and that it can bless the lives of another family.  

We bought another, smaller, newer dinette set. This is a picture I took at the store where we bought it.  We rented a U-Haul to pick it up and bring it to our house, but it isn't set up where we want it in our house yet. I think it will look and work great for us.  I'll post another picture when it is all set up in our dining room.  I am grateful that we found this lovely new (to us) dining room set that will perfectly in our new space and was a significant discount over buying it new.

I also found this cute little rocking chair at the same Thrift Boutique store where we bought our dinette set.   It will look great in the family room at our house.  I am grateful that I found this little chair for such a good deal.  I have always wanted a little rocking chair like this one. 

Speaking of the family room at our house, we got new carpet in our family room last Friday. This is what it looks like now with the new carpet. 

We also got our new dishwasher installed.  Our new stove is coming this later this month.  The new refrigerator won't come until August. 

Right now, our upstairs bathroom looks like this. We had no idea there was glass brick in the bathroom.  I love glass brick, but alas this will have to be covered up because it is in the shower and behind it is the wall to the family room addition. Our contractor said there would be moisture issues if proper waterproofing isn't done, and we want things done right.

The tile for the bathroom has been delivered and is now on the living room floor, but it will soon be up in the bathroom.  I am grateful that our home renovation is progressing on schedule.  

We went to another of our  grandson's baseball games Thursday night.  First we met up with our daughter and four of her five children at Taco Bell for a quick pre-game dinner.  

Because of the angle of the sun, I wasn't able to get great pictures of our grandson as he played, but here is one picture of him at bat. 

He stole a couple of bases.

Here he is sliding home.  

It was as fun watching the grandchildren who weren't on the ball field as it was watching our grandson play ball.   In this picture, the three- year-old was holding a deceased butterfly she had found on the ground. 

This is our almost nine-year-old granddaughter (on the left) chatting it up with her friend while both of their brothers played ball. 

I am not sure if they saw any of the game at all, but these two sure enjoyed hanging out. (That's our granddaughter in holey jeans on the right).  Both of their brothers are on the team. 

It is so enjoyable hanging out with our family at the park watching a ball game on a summer night. The weather was perfect! 

Here is grandpa with our sweet three-year-old granddaughter.  We had a delightful evening with our daughter and her family at the ball game.   I am so grateful we have been able to attend our grandson's baseball games and spend time with our family. 

That's all for now. Thanks for visiting.  I hope things are going well in your world. Enjoy this beautiful summer!  

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"Gratitude sweetens even the smallest moments."
~Anon.