Showing posts with label election. Show all posts
Showing posts with label election. Show all posts

Friday, November 8, 2024

My Honest and Candid Thoughts About the Election


I think that we have all been thinking a lot about the election this past week. Some are upset about the results and others are ecstatic.  Now that we have all had a few days to sit with and process the results of the election, I wanted to post some of my thoughts about many of the things that impacted the 2024 vote.  I will be honest, I did not vote for the winner of the election.  I am currently a registered Republican, but after January 6, 2021 and the election denial that followed, I vowed I would never vote for him, and I did not.  An interesting thing happened however, as I listened to the cases made for each candidate, especially the one I planned to vote for. I realized that the Democrat candidate, (Kamala Harris) and her side of the political divide did not represent me, my views or interests any more  - probably less than the candidate on the other side (Donald Trump).  I tend towards the middle ground and don’t see the extremes on either side as helpful.  The extremes, both right and left,  are, from my perspective, dangerous.  Apparently, some of the things that became issues for me this election, were also issues for others, no doubt affecting the election outcome.


My faith shapes my world view and opinions, so I cannot agree with abortions at any and all stages of pregnancy - especially when the procedure is for convenience and not medical necessity.  I was an “unplanned” baby myself and I am eternally grateful that my birth mother did not consider me disposable for her own convenience.  Adoption is an infinitely better alternative than abortion. 


Gender is an immutable part of who God created us, as individuals, to be and  it cannot be changed.  I refuse to go along with the lie that females can become males and that males can become females.  I won’t use pronouns that affirm or validate something that is untrue and I believe the surgery and other hormonal treatments to “affirm” gender dysphoria are simply wrong. Men should not unfairly compete against women in sports just because they have changed their “gender identity.”   Similarly, men and boys, even those who “identify” as female, should never have access to restrooms and locker rooms where women expect privacy and are at their most vulnerable.  


I know that those in the LBGTQ community/Pride movement are very concerned in light of the election.  I get it.  I have family members in that category, but I will always stand firmly for traditional marriage and family.  No one should experience discrimination or mistreatment, but our society is stronger when we have strong traditional families.  Children need BOTH a mother and father.  I agree 100% with Biblical principles of marriage and family, even as I love and care about those not in such relationships. 


We are a country of immigrants and that is and always has been one of our strengths.  That being said, we need major reform so that our doors can be open to those most in need, while establishing and maintaining the rule of law. We simply cannot take in everyone who wants to come, all at once.  I am not sure at all how to do that, so there needs to be a lot of compassion, compromise and fair limitations.  


As far as the economy is concerned, prices have gone up - a lot. We have all seen it. My hope for the economy is that Trump will be able to sustain economic growth increasing affordability. The stock market had a robust week after the news of Trump's win, so hopefully that is a sign of good things to come.


I won’t pretend I don’t have concerns about the incoming administration.  I do.  I have disagreed with many things Donald Trump has said and done over the years.  I would very much have prefered another candidate on the Republican ticket.  However, I feel a sense of peace about the election that I did not expect to feel.  I am glad that the voting was decisive and that we can move forward without multiple court cases and false claims of voting fraud.   I expect that the transfer of power back to Trump will be a return to the American tradition of peace and goodwill. I hope that I am right and for that, I am extremely grateful.    Still, as I examine the policies and philosophies of each party, I cannot help but feel that I no longer align with an increasingly leftist Democratic party. 


My paternal grandmother had a picture of John F. Kennedy in her kitchen, and I was definitely raised in a family of Democrats.  The Democrats my parents liked espoused the values of the working-class American family. As I have thought about the choices of this election, however, I realized that the current Democrat party has gone so extreme that it has left many Americans behind. I am among them.  I believe that this is a big reason that the election went the way it did.


It is not my intent to offend anyone with this post.  I acknowledge that others don’t see things the same way I do.  I respect that and hope that we can always make room for other views without weakening our own.   As we enter a new era in America, I am praying for our country, all who lead it, and all of us who love this land.


Until next time,

😊Deb💖


“There is nothing wrong with America

that cannot be cured by what is right with America.”

~Bill Clinton



Thursday, November 7, 2024

Gratitude on Election Week

Here are the things I am most grateful for this week!  I'm joining again with Susanne and friends over at Living to Tell the Story for Friday's Fave Five. 

😊  After Daylight Savings Time ended last weekend, I now have light for my morning drive to work.  The light makes me feel much safer as I drive and I am grateful for that. 

😊 Tuesday was, as everyone knows, election day and there was a huge turnout across the nation.  There was  a long line of voters at the community center just downstairs from the rec. center where Charly and I go to walk and work out.   I am grateful that so many Americans across the country voted and participated in our democracy. Voting is a duty and obligation of all citizens and it is heartening to see so many people invested in the election.   I am grateful to be an American and I am grateful to have the opportunity to vote and to have a say in what happens in this country that I love.

😊 We had some snow this week.  Most of the snow we have had so far has stayed in the mountains, but this week, the snow came down into the valleys.  I am grateful that our snowy season seems to be off to a good start, because we depend on snow for our water supply each year. 

😊 When it's cold and snowy like it has been this week, I am grateful that Charly and I have a warm and safe place to walk at our local community rec. center. 

😊 While I watched the election returns, I worked on our Jones Family Christmas Card for 2024, which I will be ordering in the next few days.  I am grateful to make progress on this annual project. 

😊 Wednesday, I took a personal day because I knew I would be up late Tuesday watching the election returns.  Because I had the day off, we went to see our attorney and sign our new revised will.  I am grateful that I could take the time off to get this piece of estate planning finished. 

😊 After signing the new will documents, Charly and I decided to have a little lunch date at our favorite Asian restaurant.  I am always grateful for a nice "day date" with my sweet husband. 

😊  After lunch, we went to a stone company to look at quartz for the new countertops we are planning to put in our kitchen within the next few months.  We looked at all the different quartz slabs and found just what we want at a price that is within our budget. I am grateful that we had the time to take care of this so we can start planning this home improvement project. 

Thanks for stopping by to share the good in my week.  There is always so much to be grateful for. Have a good weekend.  

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"I am grateful for what I am and what I have.
My thanksgiving is perpetual."
~Henry David Thoreau


















Sunday, November 3, 2024

First November Weekend

 

Friday, the first day of November, was another cold day.  At school, we had a teacher meeting and training day with no students in attendance.  I was able to come home about an hour early, so we took advantage of a little extra time and ran some errands.  

One of the errands we had to run was get these Crumbl cookies to take to our granddaughter when we take her out to breakfast for her 6th birthday on Saturday.  

When we got home, I took the Halloween decorations down, but I decided to live my scarecrows up.  I like my little scarecrow collection, and after all, it's still fall. 


A little later, I went out for an afternoon walk around the neighborhood.  I met this little guy who seemed to be waiting on the sidewalk for me.  The squirrels in our neighborhood are super tame and unafraid of humans. 


Even though it was quite cold, it was a nice afternoon for a walk.  I enjoyed crunching the dried leaves as I walked. 

Saturday we got up about 6:30 a.m., and went to Utah Country to see our granddaughter and take her out to breakfast for her 6th birthday.  It was a nice but chilly fall day. We had a lovely morning with our daughter's family.  

Here's six-year-old Hattie having a piece of one of the Crumbl birthday cookies we took to her house. 

Hattie wanted to go Chick-Fil-A for her birthday breakfast.  Here she is with grandpa at Chick-Fil-A waiting for breakfast. 

Hattie had chicken fingers for breakfast. 


Hattie has a sweet tooth and she had a milkshake with her chicken finger. 

Here's Hattie and grandpa walking back to the car after her birthday breakfast. 

After breakfast, Hattie opened the presents we brought her.  Here are some pictures of Hattie with her birthday gifts. 

Here's Hattie opening her birthday card.

Hattie was so excited with the gifts we brought her.  She liked everything. 

Here's our daughter helping Hattie get her new birthday Barbie out of the packaging.  That's one of Hattie's friends watching. 

One of Hattie's presents was a "craft jar" with lots of fun things that she could make things with.  Both of our granddaughters love crafts and art projects. 

Here's our grandson, our daughter and Hattie checking out the "craft jar" we gave her for her birthday.  We had a very nice visit. 

As we were leaving the town where our daughter lives, the "low air" light went on in our car.   Fortunately, there was a Big O Tire store nearby, so we drove in to have our tire check.  Turns out there was a bolt in one of our tires, so we were grateful that they were able to fix the tire while we waited.  

After our tire got fixed, we went to some thrift stores in the area.  I found a couple of new scarecrow friends to join the scarecrow family celebrating fall by my fireplace. 

Sunday was cold and cloudy, but the spirit in our church worship service was warm.  I deeply grateful for feeling the unity of God's love in a time when there is so much division and contention in our nation.  Charly's younger brother came to church again and both Charly and I had brief but positive conversations with him.  We spoke with a few other friends after the service, then came home. When we got home, I had a nice text conversation with my grandson who lives about three hours south of here in Cedar City, Utah.  He is learning to be a heavy equipment mechanic.

I went on a Sunday afternoon walk.  It was cold and cloudy.  Josh called and I talked to him while I walked. 

I took a couple of duplicate books I had and put them in this little "Neighborhood Book Nook" which is a couple of blocks from our home. 

When I got home, we had some rain/snow mix for a few minutes, while the sun was shining, which was kind of weird.  At least the snow didn't stick to the ground.

After dinner, (which I forgot to take a picture of) we watched our scripture study master class, as we usually do on Sunday night.   After I post this, I plan to shower, get in my warm flannel jammies and read the rest of the night away.

As we go into the new week, I will continue praying for our country, that God will watch over the election and that it can be honest and peaceful in every way.  Charly and I voted last week the day after we got our mail-in ballots.  I encourage everyone to take seriously the obligation we have as citizens to vote for those who will honor and govern according to our Constitution.  PLEASE VOTE, then come together and remember that we are all Americans and want what is best for our country!!  GOD BLESS THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!!

Weekend Gratitude:
  • Going to Tiffany's on Saturday and taking Hattie to breakfast.
  • Having a nice visit with our daughter and her family.
  • Getting our tire fixed so we didn't have a flat on the freeway.
  • Hearing good messages at church.
  • Talking to Charly's brother at church.
Coming Up this Week:
Tuesday - Election Day.
Wednesday - Taking day off to get will signed.
Friday -  Temple worship with two good friends. 
Saturday - Meeting with my cousin for breakfast.

That's it for this weekend.  Have a good week and please get out and VOTE!!

Until next time,
💖Deb😊

"Godliness makes a nation great, 
but sin is a disgrace to any people."
~Proverbs 14:34 
(New Living Translation)



















































Friday, November 1, 2024

Currently on the First of November

 

The weather has been much colder.  This was our sunrise earlier this week. If you look closely, you can see the snow on the mountains. Another foot of snow is expected in the mountains this weekend.  We have had and will have more rain, mixed with a little snow, down here in the valleys.  

I'm reading the novel Dust Child by Nguyen Phan Que Mai which is set in Vietnam and is the story of a young man born of the union of a black American soldier and a Vietnamese woman during the war.  I'm also reading the nonfiction book The Queering of the American Child by Logan Lancing and James Lindsay, which is a troubling look at some of the ideologies being taught in American schools today (and yes, I am seeing this in the public school where I teach).  

I've been listening to this audiobook, The Small and the Mighty by Sharon McMahon.  McMahon is a high school history teacher and podcaster who, in this book, writes about some of the lesser known, but admirable and important women and men in American history.  I'm not quite to the halfway point, and I am finding it quite interesting. 

We watched this movie, Girl Haunts Boy on Netflix.  It was quite good with nothing objectionable in it.  We enjoyed it.  We've also been watching the docu-dramas on The Civil War on Story TV. 

I've been working on cleaning out and winterizing my garden.  Earlier in the week, I pulled up all of the plants and vines and harvested all of the green tomatoes.  

I'm hoping that some of these little green tomatoes I harvested when I pulled up the tomato plants in my garden, will ripen in the house.  

I'm loving this cute picture of my granddaughters ready for trick-or-treating on Halloween. 

I'm looking forward to having the election over. It seems like it has been going on forever. I'm worried about the results and exhausted by the constant rhetoric and I just want it over.  No matter the outcome, I hope and pray that we can come back together as Americans and heal the division that this contentious election has created. 

That's all for right now.  Thanks for stopping by! Have a good weekend!  

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government.
To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical." 
– Thomas Jefferson 














































Sunday, July 14, 2024

It's Been a Busy Week!

It's been a very busy (and sometimes stressful) week in my world, with something important happening every single day.  Here's a little recap of the highlights. 

Monday afternoon, I got a message from a dear friend who lives in California. She and her husband were having a little vacation at a ski resort about 30 minutes from our home.  She asked if we wanted to meet up, so we drove to the beautiful resort where she was staying (Snow Bird) and we had a nice visit, and enjoyed catching up.  This friend and I worked together for a few years clear back in the 1980s - so we have known each other a while!   Unfortunately, I forgot to get a picture of my friend and her husband, but I did get a picture of the condo at the resort where we visited them.  

Tuesday we went to a Salt Lake Bees baseball game with our daughter's family.  My last post was all about that.  Everyone had a great time and we hope to make "Family Night at the Ballpark" a family tradition!

Wednesday, we left about mid-morning and drove to St. George.  It was hot. This picture of our car dashboard says it was 110, but actually it was more like 115 several days that we were there. 

We were very happy to reach and get settled into the large, comfortable, air conditioned condo where we were staying. 

Thursday, we had to sign lots of paperwork at a title company to make this home in Southern Utah officially ours. 

We then met with our property manager to begin the process of finding someone to live here until I retire and we move into this place ourselves.   It's a great house with "good bones."  I admit that it needs some sprucing up and we are starting with new flooring in the main areas.  Before we move in, I want it completely painted inside and all carpeting in the bedrooms will be replaced, and the sunroom (where the hot tub is) will be tiled.  

Right now, we are getting new Pergo laminate flooring in the living room, dining/family room, hallway, laundry room and kitchen.  We went to a recommended flooring company and narrowed our choice down to these these three samples. 


We then decided to go with this color which is the  sample on the extreme right in the first picture. This picture does not do the color justice. 

This is picture that the flooring company had of what the floor would look like. This is NOT our home, but it gives some idea of the color.  The cabinets in our home are light in color, so I think this flooring will look great! 

Saturday morning we got up early and drove to Cedar City where our grandson is going to school to become an auto mechanic.  We took him out to breakfast. 

Our grandson is a nice young man and it was fun to visit with him while eating a yummy breakfast. He had to go off to work, so we hope we can spend more time with him next time we see him!

Saturday evening, as we were watching the news about the tragic events that unfolded at the Trump rally in Pennsylvania, the power went out.  The condo complex where we are staying was completely in the dark except for some emergency lighting. We didn't have power for over two hours. It finally came back on after 10 p.m. and we were able to watch the news and get caught up on the horrible assassination attempt.  It's all so very sad.  American politics has reached a new low.  I hope that BOTH candidates will dial back their rhetoric. 

Sunday morning, we had some time before church, so I was able to finish reading this very interesting, thought-provoking and well documented book, Mind Wars by Connor Boyack.    The book talks a lot about propaganda and political rhetoric which is particularly relevant after what happened Saturday night. 

Sunday afternoon, we went to services at this church near the house we just bought.  It felt so good to be back in church after a busy and hectic week. 

Sunday after dinner, I watched President Biden's speech about the assassination attempt on President Trump.  I am praying for our country tonight. We must resolve our differences by voting - not by shooting those who don't agree with us. 

To end this post - here are few thoughts about the tragic assassination attempt that happened last night in Pennsylvania.   I have said before on this blog that I was not very happy about our choices in this presidential election.  That is still true, but I will definitely vote because I love my country and care deeply about what happens here.  Negative political rhetoric, on both sides, has gotten out of hand.  I hope that this horrible event will cause everyone to realize that both candidates, and their supporters, believe that they have the answers to what is best for our country.  Who is right and who is wrong comes down to a matter of perspective. I believe that God was protecting Donald Trump Saturday night. The bullet came too close to his head for me to believe otherwise.  This is not an announcement that I am (or am not) voting for him, but I do think that God's protection was upon Trump Saturday night. That being said, with all that has transpired this week, I also think that Trump will win the election.  I'm not even sure how I feel about that, but that is my prediction. I pray that the faith, prayers and benevolent actions of believing people - both Democrats and Republicans - will bring peace and unity to our country.  

Weekend Gratitude:
  • Traveling safely.
  • Getting some renovations/repairs lined up for the home we bought.
  • Meeting up for breakfast with our grandson.
  • Attending church at the new congregation we will go to when we move into the house we bought. 

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"We are Americans first - 
not Democrats, 
not Republicans, 
but Americans!"
~Norah O'Donnell