Friday, September 29, 2023

September Reading Roundup

Each school year, every teacher in our district has to make goals to improve our instruction in some way.  My main goal this year was to read more books about people who unlike me, and encourage my students to do the same. My September book selections were made with that goal in mind.  Between moving, renovating our 70-year-old house, traveling, and going back to school, my reading for the past two months has been way down.  In September, I only completed four books.  Three were nonfiction and one was fiction.  One book got 5/5 stars on Goodreads, two got 4/5 stars and one  only got 2/5 stars. Here is what I thought of each book. 

Don't Let Them Bury My Story *****

by Viola Ford Fletcher

Viola Ford Fletcher was just seven years old when the Greenwood area of Tulsa, Oklahoma was burned to the ground and many of its black residents murdered in cold blood.  Now known as the Tulsa Race Massacre, this horrible event destroyed the vibrant town that was known as the "Black Wall Street"  and left many of its residents dead or displaced.  The massacre became buried history for almost 100 years, and many people never heard of it. Personally, I lived part of my childhood in a town in Oklahoma less than 100 miles from Tulsa and neither me or my parents were aware of this stain on Oklahoma history, that, when I lived there, was only 40 years in the past.  In this book, Viola Ford Fletcher, 109 when the book was published, recounts the horrifying events of the night in 1921 when her childhood hometown was burned and its residents, including some of Fletcher's playmates, were killed because of their skin color.  Although Fletcher was not a professional writer, her first person descriptive account of what happened was horrifying.  She tells not only of that night, but what happened after, as a result of the violent, destructive racism.  She recounts the lifelong traumatic impact on her and her family. In 2021, she, her last living brother and one other woman were called to testify about the Tulsa Race Massacre before Congress.  Finally, she was able to tell her story to the world, and the world listened.  In July of 2023, she published her memoir, which is definitely worth reading.  I read an electronic version of this book on the Kindle app on my phone.  The book should be read by every American so that everyone can know of the horrors or racism and white supremacy.  I gave the gook 5/5 stars on Goodreads and highly recommend it.  (If you don't know the details of the horrific Tulsa Race Massacre, please take a moment to read about it here).


The 57 Bus ****

by Dashka Slater

I believe that one reason that reading is so important, is that it gives us empathy for others as we read about their lives.  The 57 Bus is one such book.  It is the true story of a horrific crime that took place in Oakland, California in 2013.  A 16-year-old black boy lit the skirt of a white boy who identified as "agender" or nonbinary.  The white boy was wearing a skirt on a public transit bus, and had fallen asleep.  The black boy, at the urging of his friends, took a lighter and held it to the white boy's skirt. Flames engulfed the white boy's legs, causing serious injury.  the black youth was arrested and charged with a hate crime.  

This fascinating and compelling story details the circumstances and what happened to both youths, the white boy who "identified" as "agender" and took on the name of Sasha and wore skirts, and the black boy, disadvantaged youth, who spent several years locked up for his cruel and thoughtless act. 

I won't comment here about my own thoughts on people who believe that gender is fluid or changeable.  I am a practicing Christian and my views on sex and gender are by and large very conservative, but I do not believe that anyone should be bullied, hurt, shunned or mistreated in any way for the person choices they make, including choices about gender and pronouns.  This tragic story, is sad for the victim and perpetrator of the crime, but ultimately the ending is hopeful as repentance and forgiveness make a way forward for both parties and their families. 

I understand that some parents have asked to have this book "banned" from schools.  While the main character is a male who dresses as a female, has taken a female name and identifies as neither male nor female, there is no explicit sex and very little objectionable language in the book.  It seems completely appropriate for high school students and, in fact, is on the shelf of my classroom now.  I gave the book 4/5 stars on Goodreads and I read the hard copy edition of the book. 


Poverty, By America **

by Matthew Desmond

I read Matthew Desmond's first book, Evicted, and it was excellent.  In that book, Desmond wrote about poverty stricken families and individuals who are evicted from the substandard places they live - mostly trailers in run down trailer courts.  Desmond actually moved into the places he wrote about and put a face on the tragic poverty statistics we have all heard about.  The book, Poverty, By America, however, was nowhere near as good as Evicted.  I listened to the audiobook of Poverty, By America and it felt like a long, boring political speech.  I felt like the book was mostly statistics and the author's rather simplistic and "easy" solutions to an overwhelmingly huge problem in America.  When our nation is as divided as it is, the first victims are those who have the least.  I believe in the seriousness of poverty and the detriment it is to our nation and society, but I didn't find this book particularly interesting, informative or inspirational.  I listened to the audiobook from our local library and only gave it 2/5 stars on Goodreads. 

The Familiar Dark ****

by Amy Engel

When 12-year-old BFFs Junie and Izzy are murdered in a deserted park on a snowy day in early spring,  Junie's mother, Eve, vows to find the murderer herself and administer her own justice.   Knowing that the small, hardscrabble ozark town where she grew up and raised her own daughter held dark secrets at every turn, Eve follows the killer's trail until it leads right back to the place where it all began for Eve and her only sibling, brother Cal.  After leaving the rundown trailer where they brought themselves up as their mother cooked meth, hosted drug parties and and brought home strange men, Eve became a young single mother who worked hard and tried to avoid her mother and the life she had been raised in. Cal became a police officer and vowed to always protect his sister and her daughter.   As Eve follows the murder's trail she finds that she can never truly leave the place she came from behind.

This book was a real page-turner for me.  It's well-written plot made me want to read just a bit more every time I picked it up. While the ending was not completely unpredictable, it leaves the reader with a feeling of closure, however dark and troubling it might be.  I will probably read another of Amy Engel's books at some point, but this book was pretty dark (as the title implies), so I need to take a break and read something lighter just now.  I gave this well written book 4/5 stars on Goodreads. I read it on the Kindle app on my phone. (Reader warning - there is some sex, violence and language in this book - it part of the storyline and so it is not gratuitous nor excessive, but it is there).  

That's all for my September reading.  I would love to hear any book recommendations you have.  Let me know in the comments.  Happy reading! 

Until next time, 
📚Deb📚

















Thursday, September 28, 2023

First Fall Favorites

At the end of yet another week and month,  it's good to look back and think about the things I am most grateful for.  To do this, I am joining with Susanne over at Living to Tell the Story and Stacy at A Mile in My Shoes to remember the blessings of the last week.

😊  We had our furnace checked (twice) to make sure that it is in tip-top shape for the coming winter.  The first company that we called to come out, sent a young "tech" who was intent on selling us a completely new HVAC system, and was probably paid accordingly. He told us we immediately needed to purchase a new furnace for $8,000 to $9,000!  We called an acquaintance who owns several income properties and asked for a recommendation for an HONEST and competent HVAC technician to give us a second opinion.  The second tech came out and determined that our furnace is just fine and is operating completely as it should.  He also checked and cleaned our AC unit and said it could operate just fine for another twenty years.  We are grateful that we found an honest HVAC tech who didn't want to sell us a furnace we don't need.  We are thankful that our furnace is ready for the colder temperatures that will be coming. 

😊 After last week's fight in my classroom, I was told that BOTH of the students who were fighting would be back in my classroom this week, and I would need to make sure they stayed away from each other.  I had a conversation with my principal voicing my concerns about this arrangement.  The principal listened to me and one student was transferred to another class.  The second student's parents decided to withdraw him from the school, so I didn't end up with either student coming back.  I am grateful that I don't have to worry about another violent altercation in my classroom, at least from those two students. 

😊 As we continue to settle in, I am grateful that I had some time this week to hang some of my favorite  pictures to make this place a little more homey.  These are framed copies of our family Christmas cards from the past few years.  I love having pictures of my favorite people in the world, my family, hanging in my home. 

😊 When I come home in the afternoon, I am usually tired and not in the mood to do much cooking, so I'm all about quick and easy dinners. Sometimes that can be challenging because I also want dinner to be a nutritious meal for Charly and I.  I donated quite a few cookbooks when we moved to this house, but I held on to this one, and I looked through it again this week for dinner ideas, and I found some really good recipes which made my dinners and my week a little more tasty and healthy. I am always grateful for quick recipes that make my afternoons a little more relaxed. 

😊 Charly has spent a lot of time this past week taking down some old cabinets that were in our garage. Charly had to use a crowbar because the cabinets were bolted to a cinder block wall. They were put up by the original owners years ago, and were unusable for us.  We will now have more room to store the things that we need to put in our garage.  I am grateful to Charly for his hard work. 

😊 I am thankful for beautiful evening walks.  Our weather this past week has been really lovely.  

Thanks for stopping by to share the good in my week.  I hope you also have had a good week with many things to be grateful for.  Have a good weekend. 

Until next time,
🍁Deb🍁












Sunday, September 24, 2023

Currently on the First Weekend of Fall

Outside my window, it is a beautiful autumn day.  It is sunny and 77 degrees - perfect weather!  The picture is of my backyard this morning.  Our lawn is as thick and green as it has been since we bought the house.  It has more weeds in it than I would like, but last year at this time, there were large barren and dead patches, so this is a real improvement.  

I've been reading Philippians in the New Testament. I am a little ahead of our church scripture reading schedule and I am on track to finish the the New Testament before the end of the year.  I am also reading Saints, No Unhallowed Hand, although it is a long history book, and I am not very far into it. Today I hope to finish the murder mystery I have been reading, The Familiar Dark by Amy Engel. 

I've been watching a couple of documentaries on Netflix, Painkiller and The Pharmacist both are about Oxycontin and the Opioid crisis in America.  Both shows are very sad, maddening and compelling.  I recommend both.   We are also watched The Chosen on Netflix Sunday afternoon. 

I've been working on trimming bushes in the front yard.  I trimmed some down on Friday (the comp day I had off) and more on Saturday evening after mowing and trimming the lawn.  

Charly has been working in the garage dismantling and taking apart this homemade wood cabinet that the former owners of this house put up.  The old cabinet is not useful for us and we need this corner of the garage for other things. 

I'm thinking about winter weather which will be coming before long.  We looked at snow blowers this weekend, and plan to buy one in a few weeks (as soon as we have a place in our garage for it). 

I'm loving some cute fall decorations that I found at Dollar Tree and Goodwill this weekend.  

I don't do a lot of fall or Halloween decorating any more, but I love this cute door hanger that I found at Goodwill for a bargain price. 

I'm thankful that we have a good realtor to help us through what is ending up be the complicated process of getting our condo sold.  We got another offer on the condo this weekend, but like the first one, the sale is contingent on the buyer selling her home.  With the real estate market around here being slower than it has been, the whole offer could fall through, but we are praying that we can get the condo sold and closed as soon as possible .  

I'm enjoying cooler weather and wearing denim jackets and flannel shirts - some of my favorite attire. 

In the kitchen, Sunday dinner was leftovers. I usually cook a nice Sunday dinner, but our refrigerator was filled with leftovers and we needed to clean it out. 

Now, here's a little more about our weekend. 

Saturday morning, we went to our grandson's football game. That's him, #25 in the bright green shoes on the far left edge of the picture.  Soon after this picture was taken, he took a hard hit and ended up on the ground.  He was shaken up a bit and his dad took him to be checked out after the game. 

After the game, Charly and I went to our favorite Asian restaurant for lunch.  We both had Mongolian Beef and it was delicious as usual.  

We also browsed one of our favorite thrift stores in the area.  We looked but didn't buy much. 

Sunday morning, we were up early and off to church, as is our weekly custom. 

Sunday morning was an absolutely beautiful autumn morning!  We enjoyed the excellent messages and music in our worship service. 

Sunday afternoon was just plain restful.  I took a short nap and did things that I enjoy.  I watched a little TV and had a long chat with Josh.  After dinner, Charly and I took a walk.  As soon as I post this, I plan to get in my flannel jammies and read until bedtime.  Overall, the first weekend of fall was a good one for me and I hope it was for you as well.  

Weekend Gratitude:
  • Having an extra day off on Friday.  
  • Getting a lot done this weekend.
  • Enjoying cooler, yet beautiful weather. 
  • Getting another offer on our condo. 
  • Going to our grandson's football games. 
Coming up this week:
Tuesday - meeting after school.
Friday - electrician coming to finish lighting in downstairs bathroom (hopefully). 
Saturday - our grandson's final football game. 
Saturday and Sunday - our church's worldwide general conference. 

🍁Thanks for stopping by!  Happy fall to all!🍁

Until next time, 
😊Deb💖

"I love autumn, the one season of the year
that God seemed to have put there 
just for the beauty of it."
~Lee Maynard




























Thursday, September 21, 2023

Best of the Last Week of Sumer

Here are some of things I am most grateful for this last week of summer, 2023.  To recall the good, I am joining with Susanne and friends over at Living to Tell the Story for Friday's Fave Five. 

😊 Fall Parent-Teacher Conferences are over.  They went pretty well, but 12-hour days are exhausting.  Being at school from 7 a.m. until 7 p.m. is not my favorite thing and I am grateful that conferences are over for several months.  

😊 It is nice that our principal makes sure we have catered dinners  on Parent-Teacher days when we have to work late. The dinners are usually pretty good and I am always grateful for a hot dinner before we begin meeting with parents. 

😊 Because we worked two twelve hour days, we get this Friday off.  I am grateful to have an extra day off and to even be able to sleep in a bit.  

😐 This isn't really a happy thing, but one that I am grateful for nonetheless. One afternoon last week, in the last class of the day, a very violent fight broke out between two students right in the middle of the classroom.  The picture is of the hole in the wall that one student made when he punched it.  It was very scary for me and all of the other students in the room.  I hit the "panic button" we have in the room and a few other teachers, as well as one of the school police officers and an administrator, came to my room right away to help restore order. The two students involved in the fight were both taken away and suspended. I am grateful for the other teachers who came into my room to help break up the fight, and I am grateful that no one was hurt. 

😊 I bought myself this bracelet to help remind myself that even on bad days, when things get rough, I still want to follow the admonition in 1 Corinthians 16:14 to do everything with love.  I am grateful for this reminder of how I want to live every day. 

😊 One day last week, I received a text with this picture, from the young man on the right in this picture.  He and Josh became friends in Arizona, but they hadn't seen each other for years and didn't stay in touch.  Last week, they ran into each other up at BYU-Idaho where both are students. They were both happy to see each other after such a long time, and I was happy to get this cute picture of a couple of really nice guys.  

😊 We had some rain this week and our temperatures dropped and now it really feels like fall here.  I am grateful for cooler temperatures and the beauty of the changing seasons. 

Thanks for joining me to look at some of the best parts of this past week for me.  Have a good weekend. 

Until next time, 
😊Deb💖

"What a precious privilege
it is to be alive - 
to breath, to think,
to enjoy, to love."
~ Marcus Aurelius 













Sunday, September 17, 2023

A Weekend Catch-up


Outside my window it has been a beautiful Sunday - sunny with a high of about 85.  It was a lovely fall day.   This is what our street looked like this afternoon.  The sky was a brilliant blue and there was a slight breeze blowing.  

This evening as Charly and I took our walk, it was a pleasant 78 degrees.  Rain is expected here later in the week, and our temperatures will fall further.  Some days our highs will only be in the 60s and 70s, so fall is definitely here. 


I'm reading The Familiar Dark, fiction, page-turning murder mystery by Amy Engel.   It's NOT a "cozy mystery", but a well-written gritty look at the unfortunate dark corners of our society, as one mother searches for her daughter's murderer.   The nonfiction book I am reading right now is Saints: No Unhallowed Hand, which a history of the early pioneer settlers in the West.  I am reading both of these books electronically on my phone, something I find myself doing more and more. In addition, I just got a hard copy of the book Get Out of Your Head by Jennie Allen and I will start reading soon. I am always reading several books at a time. 


I've been listening to this audiobook, Poverty by America by Matthew Desmond.  Charly and I have been listening to this book in the car and we are almost finished.  I will review this book in my month-end Reading Roundup, but for now I will say that I don't care much for the book. I liked this author's first book, Evicted, much better.  That book was powerful. This one not so much. 

I'm watching this 2017 documentary on Prime called Is Genesis History? It is very interesting and seems to be scientifically and historically documented.  

I'm thinking about our condo.  The sale fell through, as we expected it would, when the buyer couldn't get as much for her home as she needed to buy our place.  We are hoping for another buyer to come along quickly, but we didn't get many showings last week.  We are working with a realtor, and not selling it ourselves.  Our realtor is telling us that we just need a little patience. Houses for sale around here are staying on the market quite a bit longer than they did last year before interest rates went up.   Prices have also fallen a bit. We are still hopeful that we will find a buyer before too long. 

I'm loving these soft and cozy slippers that I ordered through Amazon and just got today.  Colder temperatures are coming soon, I know, and these slippers will keep my feet nice and toasty. 

I'm enjoying fresh tomatoes from my garden in my lunch and fresh figs from my little fig tree for breakfast. 

I'm looking forward to another trip to St. George, Utah during fall break from school next month.  We were able to get reservations just a couple of days ago.  We are looking forward to doing some hiking,  visiting our favorite thrift stores and doing anything else we feel like while we are there. 

I'm NOT looking forward to Parent- Teacher conferences which are coming up next week (Monday and Tuesday).  Meeting with the parents isn't bad, but the grueling twelve hour days are a bit rough.  We are required to be at school from 7 a.m. until 7 p.m. on those days.  Fortunately, we will get next Friday off as a comp day for the over- time.  

I'm grateful that we were able to attend our grandson's football game on Saturday.  We plan on going to all of his games for the rest of his football season. 

In addition to watching our grandson's game, it is always fun to visit with our daughter and see her other children.  This is the youngest who loves being at the football games and keeps busy running and playing throughout the game.  She is always smiling and has so much energy!

Our grandson's team didn't win, but they played hard.  Our grandson is such a kind and happy guy and a good sport.  We love being able to see his games.  

In the kitchen, Sunday dinner was Saucy Pork Chops with steamed white rice, fresh green beans and Asian salad.  It was all delicious.  

Here is the recipe for the Saucy Pork Chops. This was the first time I had made this recipe, but it won't be the last.  This recipe is definitely a keeper.  

Weekend Gratitude:
  • Seeing our daughter and some of our grandchildren at our grandson's football game.
  • Getting some extra sleep - sleeping in a bit and taking naps.
  • Enjoying cooler weather.
  • Hearing that Josh is really enjoying his new job and classes this semester.
Coming up this week:
Monday - Electrician coming to finish the lighting in the downstairs bathroom. 
Monday &  Tuesday - Parent-teacher conferences
Friday - Comp day - no school
Saturday - Our grandson's football game

Thanks all for stopping by.   Have a good week. 

Until next time, 
😊Deb💖

"Don't spend your energies on things that generate 
worry, anxiety or anguish.  
Only one thing is necessary:
Lift up your spirit, and love God."
~St. Padre Pio
















Thursday, September 14, 2023

Thankful Thursday and Friday Favorites

As another week ends, these are a few of the good things I remember and am most grateful for.  I am joining with Susanne and friends over at Living to Tell the Story for Fridays Fave Five and Stacy at A Mile in My Shoes for Thankful Thursday. 

😊 Josh started his classes for fall semester and said he really likes them. He is taking a class on Chinese history and culture and another history class called "The History of Peace."  Isn't that a great name for a history class?!  He said that they are reading a lot of the works of Gandhi in that class.  He is also taking a dance class and a religion class.  Josh also started his new job as a campus night security person for the campus safety office.  He said he likes the job, probably because he can be out walking around, and he likes jobs where he can be active.  I am grateful that the new semester is going well for him. 

😊 Our downstairs bathroom is almost completely finished!  It took a while, but this is what it looks like now. All of the tile work is finished and the toilet and fixtures have been installed by the plumber.  The only thing left is the new light fixtures and the electrician is coming on Monday to take care of installing those.  I am so grateful that this project is just about done. We are very pleased with the outcome. 

😊 I am excited and grateful that we were able to make some reservations for a couple of vacations next summer.  This is where we will be staying in Estes Park, Colorado for a few days next summer.  We love Rocky Mountain National Park and are excited to go back for a visit next year.  I also got reservations for a week in Alexandria, Virginia again next year.  We plan to rent a car (again) and visit some more Civil War battlefields that are only an hour or two away.  We are super excited about these trips.  

😊 Our temperatures have cooled down and become pleasant and fall-like.  Charly and I have been enjoying nightly walks, which I am grateful for.  I am also grateful for these beautiful roses growing in yards along our walking route.  I love roses!

😊 I don't have any rose bushes, but I am grateful for these little flowers which have perked up and multiplied in my own backyard now that the temperatures are cooler.  

😊 Because we were moving all summer, I didn't do much gardening.  I did, however, plant a few tomato plants, not expecting them to do much.  I am surprised and grateful that they have done quite well. As the picture shows, I have lots of little grape tomatoes ripening on the vine.  I have already picked and eaten some and they are oh so good!

😊 A colleague from work gave us some fresh peaches which we had as desert for our dinner the other night. They were delicious!  Another friend from church, gave us some of her big tomatoes, which will be perfect for BLT sandwiches.  I am so grateful for people who are willing to share the goodness from their gardens.  

😊 Finally, I am grateful once again this school year for amazingly beautiful sunrises over the mountains that I can see from my classroom window.  Seeing this kind of beauty makes my day!

Thanks for stopping by to share the good things from my week!  Have a great weekend! 

Until next time, 
😊Deb💖

"You don't have to wait for a special day 
to be thankful"
~anon.