Monday, February 27, 2023

February Reading Roundup

During the month of February, I finished nine more book - making a total of 18 for the year so far. Three of the books were fiction, the other six were nonfiction.   I gave five of the books 4/5 stars on Goodreads, two 3/5 stars and two books 5/5 stars.  I don't often give 5/5 stars, but this month, I gave that rating to two books, one fiction and one nonfiction biography, because each of the stories were compelling and impactful.  Here are brief reviews of each book. 


All That Was Promised ****

By Vickie Hall

Prejudice based on race and ethnicity is often acknowledged, but intolerance, prejudice and persecution in the U.S. and other Western countries based on religious choice is all but pushed under the rug and forgotten.  This book sheds light on terrible persecution that was leveled against those who followed their conscious to do what they felt God was telling them to do. Set in Cardiff, Wales in 1847, story centers around Methodist minister Richard Kenyon and his wife Leah.  Richard is leading a life committed to serving God, when he encounters a missionary from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  Kenyon and later Leah become convinced of the truthfulness of the missionary's message and become members of this new American Christian Church.  Little would Richard know of the terrible persecution, violence and even death that converts to the church would have to endure to stay true to their new faith.  Author Vickie Hall tells a compelling fictionalized story is based on actual historical events.   It is an uplifting and inspiring story.  The story continues in a second book, Journey of Promise.  I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Own paperback edition). 


Loving People Who Are Hard to Love  ****

by Joyce Meyer

This book is classic Joyce Meyers.  She doesn't mince words and says it as she sees it, with regard to Christian teachings.  I have always enjoyed Joyce Meyer's straight-forward, no-nonsense style.  I have to wonder if this will be her last book, since she is now 78-years-old.  This book is worth listening to for anyone who is already a believing Christian and wants to improve their Christian love walk and discipleship. I gave this book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Listened to audiobook from the library). 


All Good People Here  ****

By Ashley Flowers

Margot Davies is a reporter who goes back to her hometown in rural Indiana to help care for her uncle with early-onset dementia.  Years before, when she was six, her playmate from across the street was taken from her home in the middle of the night and later found brutally murdered and dumped in a ditch. Now, the similar kidnapping of another little girl in a nearby town sounds and feels eerily familiar. The murder of Margot's little friend and playmate was never solved but Margot seems to be the only one who thinks that the murders of two little girls, 25 years apart, is related.  This is a fast-paced and tightly written murder mystery with a compelling story, twisting plotline and believable, well-developed characters.  Told in dual plot lines in 1994 and 2019, the reader follows the page-turning story with the main character, discovering each piece of the a tale that seems like it could be true. I first became familiar with the author, Ashley Flowers, through her true crime podcast, Crime Junkie. This is her debut novel and it is as creepy and twisted as any of the true cases Flowers recounts on her podcast.   This book is excellent reading for anyone who likes mystery and suspense with a true-crime flavor.  Be aware that book deals with the very difficult and triggering topic of child abuse and murder and there is a considerable amount of language which some readers may not like. There is no explicit sex described. I didn't like the language, but the story was so well told that I gave the book 4/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Library book).


Blackout  ***

by Candace Owens

Conservative commentator and podcaster Candace Owens presents somewhat well-thought out and documented arguments for why African Americans should support Republicans and not Democrats when they go to the polls.  I agreed with some of what she said, but strongly disagreed with other things, especially her support for Donald Trump in the 2020 election.  I read this book because one of my students (I'm an English teacher) was reading it, and told me it was good.  It's always important to read many different points of view, and many of Candace Owens' views are very much different than many in the African American community.  The book seems to have been written as a conservative response to the Black Lives Matter movement.  It was overall easy to read and Owens stated her arguments clearly with some supporting evidence.  As I said, I didn't agree with everything in the book, but it was thought-provoking.  I gave the book 3/5 stars on Goodreads.  (I read the Kindle edition from the library, but also own hardbound copy).

An Ugly Truth  ****

This is a very long and detailed history of Facebook from it's beginning through all of the ups and downs of its growth to be social media monolith.  The book covers up to and including the January 6 insurrection and Facebook's role in it.  Founder, Mark Zuckerburg and Chief Operating Officer, Sheryl Sandberg do not come out looking good at in this book.  It appears that Zuckerburg may know a lot about the internet and technology but next to nothing about human nature, society or democracy.  After reading this book, I am glad that I stepped WAY BACK from Facebook when things got really ugly during the Covid pandemic, the 2020 election and its aftermath.    I gave the book 4/5 stars on Goodreads because it seemed to be well researched and documented with lots of information from current and former Facebook employees and developers. The way that Facebook was run and manipulated almost brought our society and democracy to its knees and this book does a good job of documenting that.  This book contains important information. (I listened to the unabridged audiobook from the library).

Church of Cowards  ****

By Matt Walsh

Conservative commentator and podcaster, Matt Walsh, who is also a  traditional, conservative Catholic, critiques American Christianity and it's often unBiblical slide toward liberal thinking and practice.  He also comes down hard on some evangelical mega-churches, TV pastors and preachers of the so-called "Prosperity Gospel". This book reminded me of Alisa Childer's book Another Gospel? in that Walsh takes issues with so-called Christians who have changed the Christian gospel to make it more "palatable" to those who many be "uncomfortable" with some teachings and practices.  I have listened to Matt Walsh's daily podcast for a couple of years now, and I found the content of this book to be somewhat like the content of his podcasts. Walsh is strongly opinionated,  but in this book he backs up his claims and arguments in with scriptures from the Bible and other traditional Christian authors like C.S. Lewis.  I found myself interested in and agreeing with much of what he writes in the book.  As with his podcasts, I strongly agree with some of the things Walsh says, and strongly disagree with other things, but I am always up for hearing differing points of view.  I gave the book 4/5 stars on Goodreads because of the way Walsh presented his arguments and I happen to agree with most of what he says.  (I listened to the unabridged audiobook from library on Hoopla). 

The Stewardship Principle ***

by Ganel-Lyn Condie

Life's problems and challenges can be reframed as lessons and opportunities God gives us to learn.   Author Ganel-Lyn Condie uses stories of challenges from her own life to teach how she learned that changing from an "ownership mindset" to a "stewardship mindset" helps us learn from and grow through challenges.  I have read other books by this author which I really liked. For some reason, this little book did not resonate for me the way Condie's other books did.  There are some gems of truth in this book, but it really read like a very churchy therapy session and I am not sure there is really a scriptural basis for some of Condie's ideas, although I am sure that reframing thoughts in a more positive context can help anyone deal with hard things. I gave this book 3/5 stars on Goodreads.  (Listened to audiobook from Deseret Bookshelf Plus).

These Silent Woods *****

by Kimi Cunningham Grant

This is a book that is hard to describe, but by the same token, it is the best book I have read in quite a while.  

For eight years, Cooper has lived in a remote cabin in an isolated forest with his daughter, Finch.  They are there because Cooper is trying to hide his past, while keeping his beloved little girl sheltered from painful truth that brought them to and keeps them the woods.  The only people who know where Cooper and Finch are and why they are there are Cooper's army buddy, Jake, who brings the supplies every year that keep them going, and a mysterious hermit named Scotland, who is their only neighbor.   When Jake doesn't show up with supplies one year, his sister comes to the cabin a few days later with word of Jake's death. That, coupled with the appearance of a mysterious young woman in the forest,  becomes the catalyst that will radically change the only world Cooper and Finch have known for eight years, and will ultimately force Cooper to confront the sins of his past.  A disappearance and murder in the woods will bring crashing down Cooper's carefully built and maintained life with the child he loves more than life itself.   

This book is not a murder mystery or a suspense thriller at all, although there is a murder as well as mystery and suspense. This book is a story of grace and love - the kind of love that motivates one person to give up his life for others. 

Although the book was a little slow at the beginning, it never failed to hold my interest and keep me up too late reading "just one more chapter."  By the end, I couldn't put it down, and by the last page, there was a huge lump in my throat and tears in my eyes.   I am giving this book 5/5 stars on Goodreads, something that I rarely do.  It is a powerful book and I highly recommend it. (Library book). 

A Change of Affection  *****

by Becket Cook

Becket Cook tells his own interesting and compelling story of being an openly gay man, successful Hollywood set designer and an atheist who suddenly and unexpectedly has a spiritual experience that completely changes his life.  He becomes a committed Christian who leaves his gay lifestyle behind to follow Christ and spread the Christian Gospel.  I started out reading this book on my Kindle, then mid-way through, I decided to listen to audiobook.  I loved hearing Becket tell his own story.  He seems sincere and honest and hearing his story helped me to strengthen my own testimony and commitment to follow Jesus Christ.  I would recommend this book to anyone - gay or straight - who wants to know why someone in our modern society would leave all to follow Christ.  I gave this book 5/5 stars on Goodreads and highly recommend it.  (I began reading the book on the Kindle app on my phone, then changed and finished it with audiobook - both of which were library loans). 

Thanks for stopping by to share my  February reading. Now, it's on to March and more great books! I would love it if you would share what you are reading in the comments.  

Until next time, 
💖📚Deb📚💖



Sunday, February 26, 2023

End of February Weekend

 Here are the highlights of the last weekend in February in my world. 


Friday morning it was back to school after two days of distance learning due to the historically large snow storm we had last week.  The main roads were mostly cleared but roads around the school were still somewhat snowy and very icy. I was grateful that I got into the building safely. Walking was as hazardous as driving on the very slick roads.

Probably half of the students didn't even show up for school on Friday after school was closed for a couple of days due to the storm. When I came out of school Friday afternoon, the air was clear, the sky was blue with some clouds, and the mountains looked especially lovely with all that fresh snow.  

I finished this batch of Letters Against Isolation cards going to Meals on Wheels in Grand Forks, North Dakota.  After school, I took them, and a package for Josh, to the post office to mail.

On the way home from the post office, I stopped and picked up a take-n-bake pizza and we had that and salad for dinner Friday night.  

After dinner, I spent most of the evening downstairs cleaning out and packing up the contents of a closet.  After that, I was tired, so I settled down on the couch to watch the first episode of season 5 of The Crown. We watched the first four season during Covid and enjoyed it.  I used to watch Dateline every Friday night, and still watch some episodes, especially if they are about famous current cases, but I am far more choosy with the content.  I noticed that I had some anxiety and trouble sleeping after some of the especially violent and bloody Dateline episodes, so I am saying "no thanks" to murder more often.  After The Crown, I did some reading, then went to bed and slept like a baby. 

Saturday morning, Charly had an event at the church to attend and I went to the temple for some worship time there. I got home just after noon and found that Charly's event had been cancelled.  We ate lunch and I did some laundry, then we headed out to get some items from the dollar store, put gas in my car and run it through the car wash to get off all the salt and muck it got from last week's snow. 

We also took a bag of books to our favorite used book store to turn in for credit.   We looked around for a while and I actually found two books I had wanted to read and considered buying, but I was strong and  put them back because I can easily get them from the library.  Charly found a few old mystery books which are now out of print (Erle Stanley Gardner - Perry Mason mysteries) and he bought those, but we still got rid of many more books than we brought home.  

Saturday morning, when I was driving to the temple, the low air indicator came on in my Honda CRV.  I didn't worry about it too much at the time because I know that changes in temperature and air pressure can activate the low air light. Still, I wanted to get it checked out, so on the way home from the bookstore, we pulled into our neighborhood Big O Tire Store and asked one of the mechanics to check our tires.  To our surprise, it was not changes in temperature or air pressure that had activated our low air indicator, but TWO road hazards in the same driver-side rear tire.  There was a screw AND a nail in the tire.  I have no idea how I was able to drive around all Saturday without getting a flat tire.  God must have been looking out for me.  Fortunately, the tire store fixed the tire while we waited, and because we had purchased our tires at that store, there was no charge.  

Saturday's dinner was leftover pizza with steamed green beans and Asian salad. 

I finished two more books on Saturday - one a physical book, and one an audiobook that I listened too.  I will review both in my end of the month reading Roundup next week.  I will say that These Silent Woods was the best book I have read in a long time.  It blew me away and I highly recommend it! Thanks to my blogging friend Faith over at Gold in the Clouds for telling me about this emotionally and spiritually powerful book! 

Sunday was a very restful and low-key day.  We went to church and I dropped a book in the return book slot at the library. Other than that, we were home.  I exercised downstairs, did my scripture study, listened to a scripture study podcast and audiobook, napped on the couch and did some indexing of immigration records at Familysearch.org

Sunday dinner was "Souperburgers"  with baked beans, salad, green beans and a few chips on the side.  It was good and easy.  Thanks to my blog friend, Kathy at Looking At Life Through My Bifocals for this dinner idea that both Charly and I enjoyed.   After dinner, I went downstairs for my second workout of the day.  I watched TV while I exercised. 

Our granddaughter Ashley, the youngest of our Virginia grandchildren will be five-years-old soon.  Sunday evening, I got her birthday present (three books and some puzzles) wrapped and ready to mail this coming week.  

As Sunday winds down, I will be getting ready for school tomorrow, then reading a bit before going to bed.  I am beginning the week by finishing one library book that I am reading on the Kindle app on my phone, A Change of Affection by Becket Cook and a new hard-copy mystery book I am starting, A Good Girl's Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson. 

Weekend Gratitude:
  • NOT getting a flat tire!
  • Finding the nail and screw in our tire and getting it fixed.
  • Spending some worship time at the temple.
  • Spending time with Charly.
  • Getting more things packed and ready to move. 
  • Finding good books to read.
  • Receiving texts and emails from friends and family. 
Coming up this week:
Sunday - another snow storm moving in tonight
Monday - weekly cleaning
Tuesday - after school appointment
Saturday - lunch with my cousin

That's all for this weekend.  Thanks for stopping by.  Have a good week!

Until next time, 
😊Deb💖

"If we had no winter, 
the spring would not be so pleasant: 
if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, 
prosperity would not be so welcome."
~Anne Bradstreet



























Thursday, February 23, 2023

Snowy Week Gratitude


It has been a super snowy week here in Utah, where I am.  We had, what the media is calling, a record-breaking snow storm, with several feet of snow falling in the mountains and up to two feet falling here in the valley in a 24 hour period.  We have about 17+ inches here at my house.   No matter what the weather, however, looking for the good and being grateful, always warms the heart and soul, so to do just that, I am joining again with Susanne over at Living to Tell the Story for Friday's Fave Five. 

😊 Due to the record amounts of snow that came fast and furious for over 24 hours, our district had two distance learning days last week. Although the snow had stopped coming down by Wednesday night, there were  accumulations in some areas of 2 + feet of snow.  Some people could not get out of their neighborhoods because many streets had not been plowed.   I am grateful that I had two remote learning days where I got to stay in my warm cozy home, grading papers and communicating with my students online. 

😊 I am grateful for the technology that allows for remote learning on days like today.  Honestly, not many of my students were even online checking assignments.  I had one student email me and I graded a handful of assignments that were turned in on Canvas.  All lessons are posted and we don't have to teach via Zoom, which is nice, because the students didn't attend the Zoom classes when we had them during the pandemic.  I am grateful however, for the way we now use technology and much of that came from the years we were dealing with Covid. 

😊 It was far too cold and snowy for an outside walk, so I am grateful that I have some equipment and space in the basement here so I can get some exercise even on snowy weeks like this one has been. 

😊 I feel like we have made progress with the purging and packing process we are going through to prepare for our move this summer.  I have been shredding some documents we know longer need, and Charly has been going through his books and he decided to part with quite a few, which will either go to the used bookstore or be donated. I am grateful that we are finding ways to continue with the process of paring down the things in our home. 

😊 This is what my front yard looked like the morning after we got 17 inches of snow.  It was a beautiful, clear, albeit cold, morning.  I am so grateful that storms, in weather and in life, don't last forever. 

That's all for this week's gratitude.  Stay warm and enjoy the weekend. 

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"Be thankful for every day,
for it has a season,
a reason,
and is always a blessing."
~Vicki Reece 













 

Wednesday, February 22, 2023

February Daybook for a Snow Day

 

Outside my window -  It is 25 degrees and snowing.  We have had over a foot of snow since about 5 p.m. yesterday.  This is the street I live on.  The roads were plowed earlier today, but as the snow continued, they are getting covered again.  I am home today because the school district where I work declared a "remote learning day."  


I am listening to - Youtubes and audiobooks! I just finished one audiobook, Church of Cowards by Matt Walsh, and downloaded this  new one, The Stewardship Principle by Ganel-Lyn Condi.   

I am reading - a hardcopy fiction book from the library (These Silent Woods), a biography on my Kindle app (A Change of Affection), and my weekly Come Follow Me study in the New Testament.  

I am wearing - my usual winter casual attire - jeans, a t-shirt and a nice warm plaid flannel shirt. 

In the kitchen- I am warming up slow cooker beef and gravy from Sunday to have for dinner tonight. 

I am creating - some more cards for Letters Against Isolation.  I hope to finish two more cards later today so I can get them mailed out to Meals on Wheels in Grand Forks, North Dakota later this week.

I am loving - that I got this nice snail mail card and letter from my long-time blogging friend Rita over at Soul Comfort's Corner.   Rita has been battling cancer for a year and half, but recent scans are showing that her tumors are gone!  This is wonderful news for a wonderful woman. 

I am looking forward to  - SPRING!!

I am thinking about - Charly's visit to the doctor yesterday.  The doctor told Charly that he is suffering from cold-induced or winter asthma, in addition to the terrible air inversions that the Salt Lake Valley gets in the winter.  The doctor prescribed an inhaler for Charly, which will help him be able to keep walking, but it is appearing more and more that we will be moving somewhere that the winters are warmer and the air is better once I retire.   St. George, Utah (pictured above), a beautiful city of about 100,000, about four hours (300 miles) south of here is looking like it may be the place we will end up. Even though St. George is about 300 miles away, it is a fairly easy drive straight down the I-15, almost to the Arizona border.  We would come back up here to visit family frequently, like 4 -6 times a year, but Charly and I need to live somewhere we can both continue to live healthy, active lives.  Sometimes, when it comes to adult children, a little distance can even be a good thing!  Of course, we still have some time before I retire (just over three years), so we will see what happens between now and then.   We are heading off to St. George next month when I have my spring break from school.  We are hoping that spending some time exploring the area will help us get a better feel for the place and make a good decision when that time comes.

I am thankful for -  Having a warm, cozy home to hunker down in on a very cold and snowy day. 

That's all for now.  Enjoy the rest of the week.

Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"Kindness is like snow.  
It beautifies everything is covers."
~Kahlil Gibran


















Sunday, February 19, 2023

President's Day Weekend


It's always so nice to have a long weekend, with an extra day at home. Here are some highlights from Friday through Sunday of our, President's Day Weekend!

Friday was another SNAD (Student Non Attendance Day) at school.   I got permission from the principal to be a bit late because I had an appointment to get my annual routine blood work done at the Granite Wellness Center.  Our district requires that employees with district health insurance get routine blood work every year.  I don't mind.  I like to know where I  stand with regard to my health.  We have a clinic for district employees only where we can get much of our healthcare (bloodwork, lab tests, doctor visits, physical therapy, and even many prescriptions) completely free. I have been to this place on several occasions.  The hours and care seem to be very good and it is convenient.   It's a nice perk of employment in the school district I work for.

When I got to school, the main staff meeting of the morning was just wrapping up. After that, our principal wanted us to have some mental health/self-care time.  There were several different activities we could participate in.  I went to the "reading room" and got 90 minutes of pure, uninterrupted reading.  It was great.  I even finished another book.  I love that our district and principal encourage and even allow us to have mental health/self-care time.  Our district really emphasizes mental health for students and employees alike. Later, I had to attend and complete a suicide prevention course which is a requirement of renewing my teaching license.  It was not enjoyable to discuss suicide for two hours, but I know that this is problem and teachers can be a front-line resource in spotting and helping students who are struggling with mental health. 

I was able to come home a bit early after the suicide prevention class.  Charly and I went for walk outside.  It was another beautiful day, although it was chilly.   Charly has noticed that the cold, very dry air and inversions we are experiencing this winter is giving him some problems with breathlessness when he walks.  He has had asthma for years, and Friday's walk wasn't good for him.  He made a doctor's appointment to get checked out next week. 

We went to a Greek place near our home to get our belated Valentine's Dinner.  I got loaded Greek fries.  They were quite good.   Charly got a Gyro and Spinach Pie.  We got take-out and ate at home. 

After dinner, I finished the puzzle I have been working on.  I think this is the last puzzle I will be doing until we move.  I finished listening to an audiobook while I finished the puzzle. 

I finished these two nonfiction books on Friday. These are both books that students had recommended to me and I always like to read books that students recommend so that I can discuss the books with them.  I will review both of these books in my February Reading Roundup. 

Charly and I watched this very nice rom-com movie on Netflix Friday night.  It was a good movie, and Charly and I really enjoyed just sitting on the couch watching it together.  

Saturday morning, I got a text that my bloodwork results were in.  I really like that the numbers were right in the app, along with somewhat of an explanation of what is normal.  As far as I can tell, the numbers were pretty good.  Later, I got the results of my A1C and the number was low - "consistent with the absence of diabetes."  I have a phone consultation next week to further go over the results of my blood work. 

We ran some errands in the morning - took care of a minor car repair, went to the post office and a couple of stores.  In the afternoon, we met up with some friends for lunch at a place that specializes in Philly Cheese Steak sandwiches.  I got a foot long sandwich then ate half for lunch and half for dinner.  It was very good, but not as good as the Philly Cheese Steaks you can get from food trucks on the streets of Philadelphia.  😋

After lunch, we stopped at a nearby Skechers store because I need some new boots for next winter and I thought that the boots might be marked down in price right now.  I was right!  I found a pair of nice boots to wear to school next winter, and I couldn't resist the cute walking shoes I found on the clearance rack.  

I went for a walk by myself after we got home. It was another lovely, sunny but cold day.  I listened to a podcast while I walked. Charly is going to step back from walking until he sees his doctor on Tuesday.  He now thinks that his asthma is flaring up when he walks in the cold dry air, but he wants to talk to the doctor before resuming daily walks. 

After dinner, I did some laundry, then sorted through all of my puzzles. I put aside some to donate and packed the rest up for our move.   I listened to a podcast and a new audiobook while I worked.  

Sunday morning, I was up by 6:30 a.m..  I usually don't sleep in much, although 6:30 is an hour and a half later than I am up on school days when I am up by 5 a.m..   I did my usual morning scripture study. This is the not-very-tidy little desk where I read the scriptures and also do many of my blog posts with my laptop.   Sunday, the first thing I read in my scripture study was Joshua 6, the story of the fall of Jericho.  I then read Matthew 24 and accompanying commentary in Your Study of the New Testament Made Easier which is all about the last days and preparing for Jesus' returnAfter my scripture study time, I put tonight's dinner in the slow cooker, texted a "Happy Birthday" message to a friend in Arizona and exercised downstairs while listening to a scripture study podcast. 

After church, I did some indexing of records from the 1830s, then I took a little Sunday nap.  When I got up, it was time to get dinner on the table, so no outside walk for me on Sunday. 

Dinner was slow cooker beef and gravy with mushrooms and onion served over white rice, with steamed green beans, broccoli and spring mix salad.  This is one of my very favorite meals. 

After dinner, I exercised downstairs again.  I watched some Youtubes and listened to another scripture study podcast while I did my second workout of the day.   I then took a shower and spent the rest of the evening reading.   These are the books I am reading as the new week begins - A Change of Affection by Becket Cook and These Silent Woods by Kimi Cunningham Grant.  

Weekend Gratitude:
  • Getting my annual routine blood work done
  • Having good, healthy results from the blood work
  • Lunch with friends on Saturday
  • Nice, sunny days
  • Having Monday off for President's Day

Coming up this week:
  • Monday - President's Day off!
  • Tuesday - Doctor appointment for Charly
  • Tuesday - Another big snow storm predicted
  • Wednesday - After school appointment
  • Friday - Virtual wellness appointment
  • Saturday - Emergency preparedness fair and luncheon at church


That's all for this weekend. Thanks for stopping by.  Have a good week!


Until next time,
😊Deb💖

"My concern is not whether God is on our side;
my greatest concern is to be on God's side
for God is always right."
~Abraham Lincoln